By clinging tightly to what you desire, it means you are trying too hard to control a situation. Many people cling to an outcome, rather than simply ‘let go’. Think of it as ordering a meal in a restaurant – if you find yourself waiting eagerly, constantly looking for the waiter – it feels like it is taking forever. Just like the universe and its gifts. The key is to place the order for what you want, then ‘let go’ of the outcome.